Am I a cougar?

Cougars are all the rage now. I hate the term. I think it's derogatory.

I've been given grief because I'm 7 years older than my husband.

Does that make me a cougar? Not in my eyes.

I've always thought of a cougar as a 40+ single woman who is on the hunt for a much younger man. The guy is usually in his mid to late twenties.

When my husband and I met, he was 28 and I was 35.  We were 36 and 28(almost 29) when we got married.

I don't consider that being a cougar.  Yes, there is an age gap of 7 years but our differences are cultural (U.S. versus U.K.) rather than age.

I have no problem with cougars.  Sometimes age differences can work. It's certainly working for me.

Here is the "cougar" and her "cub" :)

More about me - Books

I haven't really said a lot about who I am now. I've talked a lot about who I was growing up but people change to some extent as they get older.

I'm a voracious reader. 

I was a reader as a kid. I still remember the first book I ever bought with my own money - The Mystery of Castle Rinaldi. 

Now, I read historical fiction, biographies, books about the Holocaust, and dystopian novels.  The latter came from a rather morbid fascination with the Holocaust.

Dystopian novels are, I think, an acquired taste. You either like them or you don't.

I love them.

Some favorites are:

• The Hunger Games, Catching Fire, and Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins.
• The Shadow Children series by Margaret Peterson Haddix
• Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
• Fatherland by Robert Harris
• The Giver, Gathering Blue, and the Messenger by Lois Lowry
• Oryx and Crake and The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
• The Cure by Sonia Levitin
• Lord of the Flies by William Golding
• Under the Never Sky by Veronica Rossi

I'm very excited to see the Hunger Games movie with Jennifer Lawrence as Katniss, Josh Hutcherson as Peeta, and Liam Hemsworth as Gale.

As I said earlier, I said I like books about the Holocaust. I enjoy first hand accounts most.

• The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom
• The Diary of Anne Frank
• The Devil's Arithmetic by Jane Yolen
• Number the Stars by Lois Lowry
• The Upstairs Room by Johanna Reiss
• Terrible Things by Eve Bunting
• Hide and Seek by Ida Vos
• The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas by John Boyne
• Behind the Bedroom Wall by Laura Williams
• Holocaust by Graham Greene
• Lisa's War, Kris' War, Jesper, and After the War by Carol Matas

I've never been good at staying within neat boundaries so like my musical tastes, my literary tastes run the gamut as well.

Here are a few offbeat selections:

• The Harry Potter Series
• The Artemis Fowl series by Eoin Colfer
• Mrs 'Arris Goes to Paris by Paul Gallico
• The entire Dear America series
• The entire Dear Canada series
• The entire My Story series (UK)
• The Hannah Swenson Mysteries by Joanne Fluke
• The Help by Kathryn Stockett
• Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
• The Rats and Domain by James Herbert
• Atlantis Found by Clive Cussler

I have to say that I'm not a big fan of adult fiction. I hate romance novels. They're very unrealistic  and place women as the hapless maiden to be rescued by her lover/soon-to-be husband.
What also cracks me up is no matter what the era, the women in these books defy common knowledge of the day and brush their teeth, take a bath, eat a healthy diet, and get exercise.


I'm also not a big fan of the whole vampire genre. I absolutely hated the Twilight series. I found them dreary with a main character that does nothing but whine and moan about how miserable she is and hooks up with a vampire and later a werewolf.  

I just finished a book called Red Scarf Girl by Jiang Ji-li. It's about a girl growing up in China during the Cultural Revolution. What a tragic story. Ji-li was asked to speak out against her father so she can be be a part of the revolution.

So what do you read?

My cat Malcolm in one of his many strange sleeping places.